Since this is a family story and it would involve way too many "Dog" references I am going to bail on the talking dog bit for today. It will be back to amaze and annoy tomorrow.

It is Veterans day and I have been thinking about the Veterans I have known. We have an epic myth in this nation that all soldiers are heroes. There is this dysfunctional idea that somehow the service to ones country in uniform absolves the faults inherent in all people. To me this is a dangerous thing all the way around. It is not that those who serve willingly or otherwise in the military do not deserve a measure of respect for being willing to put themselves in harms way, they do. It is just the fetishization of service as a universal way of elevating people is harmful. By setting the expectations of veteran this high we nearly universally guarantee disappointment.

Originally posted at Squarestate.net

Military service does change those who serve, sometimes in good ways, other times in not so good ways. Since today is the day we honor the service of those in uniform, I thought I would share some of the experiences of my family in the military and what they have gained and lost from it.

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